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Monday, June 13, 2016

Relationship 101: Finding Confidence


Hey ya'll,

I"ll spare you the long intro or the list of reasons why I've been MIA, we all are humans with lives and I am sure you guys understand. I have good intentions that sometimes don't always go as planned. I hope you guys are doing well and enjoying the start of the summer!

I get a lot of questions sent to me via email, social media, or even snap chat and one of the most common questions I get: How do you handle your husband traveling so much and your insecurities when he is gone?

I don't know if there is a right or wrong answer to this question but I'll tell you my take on it. To be honest, it wasn't always easy and it actually was very very difficult. It takes a lot of prayer and a change in mindset. Initially, I had to fake it. I had to pretend to be confident, pretend to be secure, and pretend that I didn't care that he coached some of the prettiest celeb clients. I knew that no man likes an insecure woman so even if there were times when I felt uneasy, I prayed about it and gave my worries to God and just prayed that He gave me peace and confidence. And guess what, with time I no longer had to fake it. I had a peace that even my husband didn't understand. I began to love myself more and realize that even if he was coaching the prettiest celebrity in the game, I was worthy and that if he cheated it would be his loss. There is no marriage without trust so if I couldn't trust my husband than I didn't need to be with him. The prettiest woman cant 'make' their husband or boyfriend be faithful, that's why you may see your favorite female celeb getting cheated on. A man has to have something bigger than him to keep him faithful. My husband loves God more than he loves me and he is walking in his purpose, knowing the man I have, I knew I had to love and let God.

So if you are in my position, you may have to fake it until you make it; but trust God through it all. He never fails you and He will have your back and give you the peace you need to make it through.


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